How can i explain my anxiety to my fiance that I’m about to marry next weeK?
Kristina W asked:
I keep obsessing over my tmj. I get tense, heart rate increases, dizziness. He does’nt understand anxiety and it’s pretty severe right now. Waiting for the Zoloft to kick back in. How do I explain this to him?
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I keep obsessing over my tmj. I get tense, heart rate increases, dizziness. He does’nt understand anxiety and it’s pretty severe right now. Waiting for the Zoloft to kick back in. How do I explain this to him?
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you,d better learn to trust him asap, or you will have a short, unhappy marriage.
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Take him to your Dr / Therapist. He needs to start UNDERSTANDING and showing interest in your health if he is marrying you. Do not try to hide this from him. It’s a matter of honesty about who you are.
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You could look up info online and give it to him. Here’s some good sites for info on anxiety –
National Alliance on Mental Illness a local mental health clinic
He really needs to be educated about this.
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YOU HAVEN’T TOLD HIM YET?!?! What kind of trust do you have? You just need to be blunt. That’s how you explain it. Sit him down, say, honey, I love you and I have something to tell you. and TELL HIM. If he loves you, it won’t be a big deal. Zoloft takes about 1 to 2 weeks to kick in.
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Wow you left this a little late didn’t you? Please talk to him before the wedding. And maybe not the day before either. And what do you mean he doesn’t understand anxiety? Is he one of those people who are phobic about such things? You are on medication, is this something you would have to hide? Sweetheart you need to have a thorough talk with him, I am afraid this is a pretty big deal. You need to know these things before you marry, because it can cause divorce later, and trust me a divorce is no picnic. Good luck.
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Hi…just wanted you to know that I have had problems with anxiety in the past and have overcome them. I am starting up a website called Anxietycompass.com to help people control their symptoms and get their lives back. It isn’t finished yet but keep checking back because we will be adding new pages all the time. And no, we are not selling anything. It is completely free. We are just there to help.
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I am engaged as well and i suffer from anxiety. I know it can be a pain to live with and to understand let alone getting someone else to understand it. I suggest sitting him down explaining what anxiety is (research if needed) How it effects YOU, What triggers it, what it feels like (use examples he can relate to) and what he can do when you have one. I have written an article called How to Manage and Stay Relaxed with anxiety. Please check it out, it has helped me here is the site below
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i would take a look at some of the articles on this site and show him. if he doesn’t understand then im not sure what you can do…
also it might even give you a cure i know my anxiety is much less after using tacktics i read from on of the books i bought.
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